Is your guy pulling away from you physically or emotionally? Are you trying hard to get closer to him only to be met by resistance and even more distance? Why do men pull away and what is really going on in their heads?
#1 – It’s Not Because He Doesn’t Love You
The biggest fear women have when a man pulls away is that deep down he could be losing interest in us. Maybe he’s having second thoughts. Maybe he likes someone else. Maybe he’d rather be single. Maybe he finds the sex boring and wants a woman who actually knows how to please him. Maybe he just finds us boring, period.
This is our biggest fear and often the furthest thing from the truth. When we think it’s us, it’s often just our own fears coming up to haunt us.
#2 – Have You Pulled Away First?
Have you ever been scared to say what you really think because you were afraid how he would react? Perhaps he said something that made you feel uncomfortable, uneasy or just annoyed. Perhaps he has unintentionally hurt your feelings without realizing it.
It doesn’t feel good does it? In fact, it often feels like you’re carrying heavy deadweight in the bit of your stomach.
Believe it or not when you feel this amount of tension in your body, your man will pick up on it. Either he is going to feel you’re pulling away from him or he will just sense something is not right. He may not know exactly what it is but he will feel it.
He will likely react by pulling away too because just like you, he has his own fears about not being good enough.
#3 – He Is Overwhelmed
When a woman has a problem, she often wants to talk about it. When a man has a problem, he often wants to hide in his man cave. A man can easily be overwhelmed by problems in his life; from problems at work to feeling overwhelmed by emotions.
When he pulls away, it’s because he needs to be by himself to work out these issues on his own. He isn’t intentionally trying to make you feel left out. What makes this so frustrating is that women often want to talk when he just wants to be left alone.
The more you badger him to open up or try to help him, the more resistant he will become and the more space he’ll need.
The biggest thing women need to realize is that when he pulls away, it’s not always about you. The more you project your own fears onto him, the more you’ll push him away.
Stop pushing your man away and get him to chase after you instead.
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