Let’s face it – no matter how nice you are or how much you give to your woman, she’ll always find some little thing about you that doesn’t satisfy her. Maybe you’re just not romantic enough, maybe you’re just not communicating enough, maybe you spend too much time with your friends, or maybe you spend too much time at home… I could go on and on about the things your woman may complain about you.
As a man, you want to keep your woman happy. But of course, you don’t want to lose yourself in trying to do every little thing for her just to keep her satisfied. What will actually make her happy is for you to understand her and be the man in the relationship. If you don’t cater to all her whims, it will make her respect you more. Here are some things you can do…
1. Be Decisive.
This doesn’t mean that you always need to make the decisions in the relationship, but being a man means being decisive. You need to know how to make good decisions and accept responsibility for any outcome. Though a woman doesn’t want anyone trying to control her actions, she also doesn’t want to be left with making all the decisions in the relationship.
Of course, understanding the other person’s viewpoint is essential to making a good decision. So to be the man, you must also get her input first before deciding on something.
2. Be a leader.
To have a good relationship with your woman, you need to take leadership. Your woman won’t hold you in high regard if you do nothing and wait for someone else to solve the problem.
If you hold back because you’re afraid of being criticized, then you’re playing it safe and not acting like the man in the relationship. A man should be able to handle problems and come up with solutions. Of course, it’s never wrong to ask for help when you need it.
3. Be the strong one.
And I don’t mean physical strength. To be the strong one in the relationship, you need to have control over yourself. When you’re angry with your woman, for example, you should be able to control your anger and not physically hurt her, as this will make you a coward, hitting people who are smaller and more defenseless than you are.
Real strength comes from the strength of your mind to keep your passions in check and protect those who are weaker. This makes you the man in the relationship, a strong one.